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Promise Yourself to be Self-Confident
Imagine a situation wherein you have all the comforts a person
can ask for. You have a beautiful apartment equipped with all
the equipments of modern living.
You have a modular kitchen with the latest design in the town,
a state of art air conditioning system which cools your home
within seconds, a hi-fidelity home theatre system to take you to
a melodious journey after a hard day, a plasma T.V to get the
joy of a big picture, a fully automated laundry system with
intelligent sensors, a Video Audio integrated computer system
which organizes everything from your data to family albums in a
jiffy, latest soft lighting for your bedroom and much more - but
you don't have electricity.
Yes, you read it right your apartment does not have any
provision for electricity. Would you now want to live in it?
Just as the absence of electricity reduced the ultra modern
apartment to a thing we better not talk about, absence of
self-confidence can also do something like this to a seemingly
healthy person. What is a house without electric power, and what
is a human being without self-confidence. Without
self-confidence even the best of people can be like
sophisticated airplanes waiting for the take off. Without
confidence you'll probably never take off. Do you feel like in a
similar situation? Do you feel that even after having all the
qualities and skills are still aren't successful? Ask Yourself -
Is it lack of confidence?
Realize your worth - It helps you become confident!
It is important to realize that there is no one quite like you
in the entire universe. In a human reproduction system, a
million sperms are released out of which nature chooses the
fittest to reach the egg to form the embryo. So isn't it a
reason enough to believe that you are one in a million and
nature had worked so hard for you, the fittest, to see the
world? How can you then not feel confident?
You are the chosen one and it's your duty to live upto the
expectations of Mother Nature. It's your duty to yourself and
your soul to be confident. How else do you expect the qualities
in you to come to forefront? Nature made you for a purpose, and
how can you sit hopeless and betray Mother Nature by not doing
what you were appointed to do. How can you be forgetful of your
great self within?
Yes, you are the part of that superior soul and there is enough
light within you to see the path ahead. How can you afford to be
not confident? So arise and speak loud to yourself "I am the
chosen one! I have the power to transform my life! I have lots
of work to do and I need all my inherent qualities. I HAVE to be
confident. I MUST be confident"
Take a Decision
The hardest times are the times of indecision. Decision makes
things easier. It pushes the uncertainty away and gives you a
purpose to focus. It makes you think. Once you have decided to
be confident, you are no longer waiting for some miracle to
happen. You have taken a decision. You have control on your life
now. You have decided not to waste your life anymore. You have
decided to be confident. You have decided to take on this world
head on!
This decision makes your life easier. It makes you feel lighter.
You have a purpose and you got to focus on that purpose. Your
mind is most powerful when its focussed. You can feel the
difference. A focus mind changes your body language. Your steps
are solid, your handshake is firm, your eyes right ahead. You
become a changed person - A person who has the ability to
achieve goals, the ability to be happy about his achievement,
the ability to love to his family, the ability to stand in the
crowd without any stress, the ability to take risks, the ability
to realize his dream. Won't you rather be like this person? Go
ahead, you can do it.
Your time starts now!
About the author:
Tony Robinson spent many years as a School Teacher and
Administrator. Always of concern was low self esteem and a lack
of confidence with some students. For more information visit
http://www.better-self-esteem.com
Written by: Tony Robinson
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